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My Mindful Musings about mental health issues and other therapy-related things. After four years of disallowing comments on this blog due to legal and ethical concerns, as of April, 2012, I am experimenting with moderating comments. I’m excited to be able to have people talk back to me here.

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Articles For Clinicians Using Social Media is a compilation of my posts for mental health professions on the Internet.

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Living Social and Groupon, a Guest Post by Adam Alban, Ph.D., J.D.


Recently, on the Division 42  listserv, which I moderate, there was a thread about Living Social and Groupon. I referenced my former post on this issue and posed the question as to whether others believed this constituted “fee-splitting” as prohibited by our ethics code. My colleague Adam Alban, Ph.D., J.D. responded, and I thought his ideas about this were worth sharing.

Be sure to read the other great articles on Dr. Alban’s website, and if you’re in San Francisco, you won’t want to miss him presenting on Saturday, May 19th on Law, Ethics, and Charts: Every Therapist’s ‘Dirty Little Secret’. 9:30am – 12:30pm.

Dr. Alban’s post is below:

I’d like to preface this comment by saying that I do not have an opinion about whether promotions such as Living Social, Groupon, etc., are appropriate or constitute impermissible fee splitting when used by psychologists.  I do, however, think that it’s useful to think about these things as the marketplace changes and as psychologists such as ourselves feel the need to be more enterprising.

Here’s the text of 6.07- “Referrals and Fees: When psychologists pay, receive payment from, or divide fees with another professional, other than in an employer- employee relationship, the payment to each is based on the services provided (clinical, consultative, administrative, or other) and is not based on the referral itself.”

It seems to me that it’s important to remember the main purpose of 6.07, which is to make sure that referrals are made based upon clinical indications and not upon a fee.  This provision of the Ethics Code is in place to maintain the integrity of the treatment.  It’s also helpful, I think, to keep in mind that 6.07 does not prohibit fee sharing; its function is to ensure that any fee distribution is based upon services rendered.

Here’s how I would approach an arrangement like Living Social or Groupon:

1.) Determine who is making the referral:  Are patients self-referred based upon a mass email?  Or, is the website targeting individuals based upon other data?  Who decides whether the patients purchase the offer and/or visit the psychologist?  IMPORTANT: If patients decide to purchase a “deal,” is he/she aware that the psychologist’s participation in the deal is a promotion?

2.) Determine, to a reasonable extent, whether/how the partnering business maintains patient data.  Under many circumstances, the mere fact that a patient is seeing a psychologist is confidential.  However, patients who willingly choose to disclose that fact to a third party may do so of their own free will.  It’s not the psychologist’s dilemma if a patient breaches some elements of confidentiality.  But if the partnering business requires that the *psychologist* continues to provide patient data after the initial contact, the patients may need to be made aware of this in order to provide consent for this data transaction.  Patients can disclose private information on their own, or they can consent to the release of their private information.  (It’s certainly possible that many psychologists would reasonably believe that the potential intrusions disrupt the frame to such an extent that the treatment becomes irrevocably warped, but IMHO that is a theoretical judgment and not an ethical decision, per se.)  HIPAA Covered Entities may, under some circumstances, need to enter into Business Associate agreements with partner businesses if the information sharing is required (by contract) to continue.

3.) Something else to consider is whether partner businesses such as Groupon or Living Social are more like advertisers or more like business partners? Or, are they some altogether different form of business?   Recall that 6.07 provides examples of “clinical, consultative, administrative, or other” as services that are permissible bases for fee division. Is advertising an “other?” Are these types of promotions an “other?”

4.) A very real and practical concern (less an ethical concern) is that the response to these daily deal sites can be overwhelming. Be prepared for an avalanche of calls.

You can read more of Dr. Alban’s thoughts on this on his own blog. If you’re interested in hearing more from him, also know that he facilitates a monthly Law & Ethics discussion night for San Francisco Psychological Association.

May 20th Bay Area 3 Hour CE in Digital and Social Media Ethics


Bay Area locals, I will be offering a 3 hour CE on Sunday, May 20th from 1-4pm with Santa Clara County Psychological Association.

I’d love to see you there!

Register here.

SFPA Members get member rates!

Digital and Social Media Ethics for Psychologists
May 20, 2012
1:00pm to 4:00pm. Registration at 12:30
3 CE hours

Sponsored by
Santa Clara County Psychological Association
Location-Palo Alto University
5150 El Camino, Suite 22, Bldg C
Los Altos, CA

Course Description:
The Internet and social media are offering a number of new clinical and ethical challenges for those who provide face-to-face mental health services. These challenges include extra-therapeutic contacts between therapists and their clients, questions about what distinguishes personal from professional activities online, and a lack of clearly developed policies related to our online behaviors and interactions.

This course offers an introduction to digital ethics and to various social networking sites and activities. It provides guidelines for anticipating and managing the problems that may arise for practitioners who are using these sites. Applicable ethical standards will be addressed. The instructor will incorporate vignettes and encourage discussion to address the different ways clinicians are addressing these issues.

Learning objectives:
• Describe social media and summarize several popular social media sites and services.
• Distinguish between one’s personal and professional activities on the Internet.
• Identify the ethical challenges that may arise from engaging in activities on the Internet.
• Construct a social media policy for one’s office to address potential boundary issues with clients.

Presenter’s Bio:

Keely Kolmes, Psy.D. is a licensed psychologist in private practice in San Francisco, CA. She serves as Director of Digital Communication for APA Division 42, Psychologists in Independent practice. Dr. Kolmes writes, does research, and provides consultation and training on clinical and ethical issues related to social networking and technology. Her Private Practice Social Media Policy has been frequently cited and is a recommended sample document for clinicians by the APA Insurance Trust. She has published a New York Times Op-Ed on the challenge of consumer reviews of mental health services. Her professional website is www.drkkolmes.com where she keeps her blog, Mindful Musings: www.drkkolmes.com/blog. She can also be found on Twitter as @drkkolmes

CPA is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. SCCPA maintains responsibility for this program and its content.

Six Tips for Avoiding Injury to Self and Others on the Internet


Ah the Internet. It gives so much to us in terms of support, connection, and the ability to obtain and absorb information.

And then, in an instant, it can also take so much away: feelings of pain, jealousy, feeling left out, or trying to interpret messages from pixels on the screen.

The Internet makes it easy to communicate without having to talk to people like some of us digital immigrants did in “the old days.” Don’t forget that the human relationships you most value do require some direct, face-to-face communication sometimes as part of their regular care and feeding.

Since so many of us are living our lives online these days, here are my six pointers for avoiding injury to yourself and others on email and social media.

1. Be careful of “heat of the moment” posting.

It’s so easy to impulsively respond to an email or a tweet or a wall posting when you’re feeling hurt or angry. But if you find yourself composing something when you’re feeling angry or shaken, try making it into a draft and giving yourself at least a 24 hour cooling period before clicking send.

If you have a trusted friend who you know to be a careful and balanced thinker or communicator, perhaps run your posting by him or her.

If you goof, and post something that maybe you shouldn’t have, you can still self-correct and delete it later. An apology may sometimes be a step towards a better interaction, as well.

2. Don’t use status updates as a passive-aggressive way to communicate something to just one person.

If you know you are really posting that tweet or status update for an audience of one, and it’s an indirect way to get something off your chest, try a direct message to the person you’re trying to to reach instead. Or better yet, send an email (or – gasp! – pick up the phone and call) and see if they are available to talk in the near future.

Don’t use vaguebooking or passive-aggressive posts to try to get attention. You may irritate people, and you may find that it doesn’t really wind up getting you what you want. Of course, private jokes or sweet messages can sometimes become a status update. But beware if you are using your twitterstream or Facebook Wall or G+ account as a way to beat around the bush.

3. Never unfollow or unfriend someone out of retaliation just because they unfollowed you.

Yes, it stings to find out that someone has stopped following your tweets or is suddenly showing up as a recommended Facebook friend when you know you were connected just a week ago.

If it’s a close relationship, you can always send a note and say you’ve noticed they stopped following you and ask why they did so. Don’t do this unless you are prepared to hear their answer.

But if you are still following them on Twitter and you like their tweets, don’t unfollow them to “get even.” Try giving it 30 days or so to see if they are still providing valuable content to you. If it’s still bugging you, and the relationship is close enough, you can ask why they took you off their Follow list.

If what follows is a “difficult conversation,” see my blog post on how to have difficult conversations.

And try those off of the Internet! Oh wait, that’s item #5!

4. Don’t obsessively Facebook, Google, or Twitter-stalk your ex (or the person your ex is now dating).

Of course, it’s tempting to find out what has happened in someone’s life when you’re no longer in it, and the Internet has made it ridiculously easy to browse photos, news, and updates on the lives of people who are no longer in our lives. In the old days (yes, this is a phrase I am now old enough to use), people might drive by an ex’s house in a moment of longing or self-loathing. But now we can just sit home in our pajamas and look at their social media profiles to find out what’s new with them.

But this has become a new form of self-injury for many people. Sometimes, it can feel like a compulsion and it can be hard to stop. If you find you are doing this, consider employing some harm-reduction strategies such as using the “block” function or imposing time periods during which you’ll stay away from the offending profiles.

Try 14 days of not looking. Then try 30 days. You may find that not looking helps you move forward and helps stabilize your mood.

If it helps, enlist a friend whom you can call when you have a weak moment. Ask your friend to help support you in choosing something healthier to do rather than checking these profiles.

Chances are good that the profile will still be there to peek at once you’ve had 30 days of sobriety from checking your ex’s profile.

5. Try to keep important and difficult conversations offline.

The online disinhibition effect can lead people to sometimes get closer online and share more than they would offline with positive effects. But it can also lead some folks to say things that are more cruel and toxic than what they would say if they were chatting face-to-face, looking into someone’s eyes and seeing how their words land. This can be problematic, if you want to process hard things in a friendship.

One of the worst things you can do is tell someone that something should happen in an offline chat, but then dump your side of the conversation into an email. That’s unfair and it only makes sense that a person would want to respond to that email.

So do both of yourselves a favor: if you think something warrants a face-to-face conversation, don’t start it over email. Send an email and say, “Let’s get together and chat, I’ve got some stuff I wanna talk to you about.” Or pick up the phone and do the same.

Unless you’ve got a proven track record with someone who also likes to process things over email, don’t assume this is the best way “to talk.”

6. Avoid inflicting FOMO on your friends (and yourself).

While it’s great to post photos and updates of all the cool and groovy things you do in your life, remember that people are going to see these updates who may feel very hurt and left out when they find out you had a big birthday bash and neglected to invite them.

Be mindful of what it means to have wide audiences who are now privy to your every social engagement and think about whether you really want to share these things with everyone or whether you want to create filters and friend groups so that you are not in inadvertently pissing off half of the folks you call your friends.

And if you’re prone to FOMO yourself, start booking up your own social calendar rather than cruising for online information of what you’re missing out on. If you’re feeling like you’re missing out on too much, it may be a sign that it’s time to work a bit harder on creating more offline activities for yourself than online ones.

 

 

Enabling Comments on My Blog


For a long time, out of legal and ethical concerns, I’ve deprived myself of allowing comments on this blog. I had worries that clients might identify themselves or that people might share things in the comments that would make themselves vulnerable or which might require some action on my part or create an inadvertent clinical relationship between us.

But I’m going to begin experimenting with allowing moderated comments on some of my blog posts now and see how that goes. I plan to screen all comments before posting, not to be a heavy-handed control freak, but just to be sure that they contribute to the value of dialogue, community, and my site. Hateful, and abusive speech will not be approved.

I look forward to hearing from my readers and having conversations with you about my writing.

Thanks, as always, for checking out my site!

SXSW 2012 – WARNING: Are Online Reviews Bad for Your Health?


I’m back from SXSW, where I got rained on HARD and also got to network and socialize with some of my favorite people. My session was on the challenges raised by consumer reviews of healthcare providers. You can read the Storify story of tweets below.

Thanks to everyone who came and asked great questions!

Check out the audio from my segment of our presentation:

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You can also hear the full audio here, and view the Storify tweets below.

Tweets from SXSW session WARNING: Are Online Reviews Bad for Your Health?

Session moderated by Cindy Cohn, Legal Director of EFF. Panelists: Jeffrey Segal, CEO of Medical Justice, Dr. Keely Kolmes, SF Psychologist in private practice, and Vince Sollito, VP at Yelp.

Storified by Dr. Keely Kolmes · Mon, Mar 12 2012 14:21:29

Heading out to catch the #drreview discussion at #SXSW involving @drkkolmes @EFF and others.VogeleLaw
Ready to vigorously defend the cause, it will be a spirited discussion at 3:30′s Are Online Reviews Bad For Your Health? #sxdrreview #sxswJasonLotkowictz
Hashtag for our #sxsw is #sxdrreview looking forward to your tweets and participation. Starting soon!drkkolmes
In about 10 minutes we’ll be livetweeting "WARNING: Are Online Reviews Bad for Your Health?" with EFF Legal Director Cindy Cohn #SXDrReviewEFFLive
The #sxdrreview panel at #SXSWi (l to r): Cindy Cohn, Dr. Jeffrey Segal, @drkkolmes and @vincesollitto http://pic.twitter.com/yc2NLJh9VogeleLaw
A very timely presentation @nelsonutah1 WARNING: Are Online Reviews Bad for Your Health? at SXSW 2012. #sxsw #DrReviewbmgresh
Are online reviews bad for your #health? We presume that they will incentiviize you to deliver better #quality #SXdrReview #SxSWiHuntingtonNews
Cohn: People’s unprecedented ability to share their impressions is a unique problem for doctors, who can’t publicly respond. #SXDrReviewEFFLive
Speaking first is Jeffrey Segal, MD, JD, and CEO of Medical Justice. #SXDrReviewEFFLive
Segal: Picking a doctor is about more than taste. Do review sites help patients (or parents) make good decisions? #SXDrReviewEFFLive
Algorithms can flag a provider with a limited license, even if that limit is not based on malpractice (ie traveling experts) #sxsw #DrReviewMikeLICSW
Segal: Average doctor sees 1k-2k patients a year, but have only 0-3 ratings on review sites. No "wisdom of the crowd." #SXDrReviewEFFLive
The most satisfied patients have the highest mortality rate per Dr on panel #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
Segal: Doing the right thing is not always popular. If a doctor e.g. denies additional Vicodin refills, they may get bad reviews #SXDrReviewEFFLive
doctor review sites: not every poster is a patient. could be from a competitor. hipaa prevents full responses from docs #sxdrreviewkimbennettnyc
#sxdrreview Jeffrey Segal of Medical Justice is discussing the development from (c) contracts to crowd sourced reviews from real patients.VogeleLaw
Segal: Study showed satisfied patients are less likely to make ER visits but more likely to die. Is satisfaction a good metric? #SXDrReviewEFFLive
I doubt it mRT @EFFLive: Segal: Picking a doctor is about more than taste. Do review sites help patients make good decisions? #SXDrReviewElinSilveous
Segal: When will be able to depend on medical review sites? When doctors and nurses use them to pick their own doctors. #SXDrReviewEFFLive
Respectfully disagree w/ Segal’s quote – Docs/nurses are the last people who need better visibility into quality of other HCP’s #sxdrreviewJason Lotkowictz
Now speaking is Keely Kolmes, a licensed psychologist. She says there need to be good, objective sources of doctor info. #SXDrReview.EFF Live Tweets
@drkkolmes feels strongly that patients need places where they can get good strong information abt providers. Agree! #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
Aggregation of data seems to be a recurring theme and a recurring need throughout the #SXSWh track. #sxdrreviewCommunicateHealth
Doctor fear: will the medical board think I’m soliciting reviews? #sxdrreview #sxswKelly McCormick
@drkkolmes talking about the challenges of metal health providers and online reviews. #sxdrreviewReed Smith
Kolmes: An extra complication for psychologists – they are prohibited by ethical guidelines from asking for testimonials. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Kolmes: I asked Yelp to remove my business page which had no reviews, but they wouldn’t remove a public business. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Therapists can’t respond to a review because that itself violates the patient right to privacy #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
On the other hand, therapists can ask colleagues to post positive collegial reviews. #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
Kolmes: Yelp (et al) cater to people who are angry and upset or over-the-moon elated. Those are not necessarily useful reviews. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Many sites @ docs are people either posting @ being v happy or hating their doc. We need meaningful & objective data. #sxdrreviewKim Bennett
Kolmes: Confidentiality rules "muzzle" doctors in a way that creates additional problems and tensions. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
@drkolmes – "review sites are not the best way to protect other consumers." #SXDrReviewReed Smith
Kolmes: Can we get more objective info from doc review sites? Yes! Cost estimators, # of surgeries, disciplinary actions etc #sxdrreviewJason Lotkowictz
Now speaking is Vince Sollitto, VP of Corporate Communications and Government Affairs at Yelp. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Yelp was originally created by the founder because he wanted to find a good doctor in a city he had moved to. #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
Sollitto: 80% of reviews on Yelp are 3 or more stars. It’s not just a place where people rant. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
That’s the problem: 80% of reviews being "positive" suggests a bias in reviews and data. Not accurate = not reliable #SXDrReview #sxswDr. John Grohol
One more example for #sxdrreview: Plastic surgeon sues former patients for comments made in on-line reviews http://bit.ly/xFDn1sAngilee Shah
Sollitto: In CA, we have a great anti-SLAPP law. Businesses that sue consumers for writing reviews and lose must pay costs. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Sollitto of #Yelp talking about online physician reviews. I once did a review on a physician online – it wasn’t positive. #sxsw #DrReviewHITManZac
Spirited debate abt #hcsm going on at #drreview #sxswMikeLICSW
Health care reviews growing on Yelp, says Vince Sollitto. Doctors should respond to patients privately, add profile info #sxdrreview #sxswhAngilee Shah
Solitto: iPads in waiting rooms could be considered coerced. #sxdrreviewKelly McCormick
what do you think about having ipads in the docs office for patients to give an anonymous review of their office visit? #sxdrreviewKim Bennett
Negative review is opportunity for MD to solve a problem. Like any other business, respond to pos & neg feedback. #sxdrreviewSingularity Design
This panel highlighted the need for docs to post info about their practice themselves because they can’t respond to reviews #sxdrreviewUChicago Medicine
Segal: Medicare’s upcoming release of data should improve patients’ ability to make good decisions about healthcare providers. #sxdrreviewKelly McCormick
Need more objective data than stars: can I get an appt, what's MD bedside manner, does MD take time with me? Vince/Yelp #sxdrreviewSingularity Design
Excellent discussion of bad reviews and doctors in #sxdrreview. Lots of great points from the panelists. #sxswRocky Epstein
Q: Is something legal or political standing in the way of doctors reviewing doctors? Segal: Maybe not, but may not be scalable. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Cohn: Lawyer ratings that incorporate peer evaluations are not very useful, either. It ends up being a popularity contest. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Review sites like Yelp can just act as venting medium… And aren’t scalable (who wants to read 200+ reviews?) #sxdrreview #sxswDr. John Grohol
Segal: Pioneering doctors have started to direct patient conversations by pointing them towards reliable medical info sites. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Sollitto: Consumers read reviews differently from businesses. They’re more able to weed through and decide which are worthwhile. #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
So engaged in #sxdrreview panel I didn’t even tweet! #sxswhAmber Holick
That wraps up "WARNING: Are Online Reviews Bad for Your Health." Thanks for following! #SXDrReviewEFF Live Tweets
Thanks to everyone who came out to our session. You can catch up on ze tweets at #SXDrReview thnx Cindy Cohn for moderating!Dr. Keely Kolmes