S.F. Chronicle columnist Violet Blue interviewed me about my thoughts on cybersex, monogamy, and relationships for her “Open Source Sex,” column this week, “Is Cybersex Cheating?”. The full interview can be read on Violet’s blog.

I wish I’d said a bit more about the feelings of emotional intimacy that can take some people by surprise when they engage in online sexual interactions. Otherwise, I very much enjoyed Violet’s questions and I was happy to read about people who are integrating cybersex into their relationship in safe, creative, and exciting ways. I also loved Violet’s term “techno-poly,” to describe folks who are negotiating non-monogamy with virtual partners.